EVERY WOMAN HAS INSECURITIES.
If you’ve been considering a boudoir session, but you haven’t because of your insecurities, just know that every woman has them. It doesn't matter the size every woman in the world has something they don’t love about themselves.
Take it from me. I’ve seen women of every shape and size who tell me their insecurities. After their session though, they end up seeing themselves in an entirely new light. Boudoir sessions build confidence like nothing else.
Carry Miller was one of my very first clients while living in Illinois and I had no idea she was even struggling. She was always so happy when I spoke with her and she was so excited about her session. It wasn't until after her session that she opened up to me about her body insecurities. I was surprised to hear that and had no idea. She had some scars from an undiagnosed illness and I honestly didn't even really notice them.
But the day I sent her - her gallery she then sent me this text....
"...I just feel awful at what's become of my body. Then I go to my boudoir photos and it instantly makes me feel better. It's been pretty hard to look in the mirror lately and the photos you took of me are my constant reminder that whatever I have going on is temporary and that I will get back to that girl who felt confident in her own skin the way I did that day at your house. The timing of those photos was perfect and I'm so thankful I have them right now.
Insecurities can be debilitating and can cause a lot of mental struggle. We all have our own set of insecurities, and sometimes they can take over our thoughts and make us feel like we are not good enough. It can be difficult to deal with these insecurities, but it's important to remember that you are not alone. Many people struggle with their insecurities and it's okay to feel vulnerable.
When we struggle mentally with our insecurities, it can impact every aspect of our lives. Self-love is the key to overcoming our insecurities and feeling confident in ourselves. We can start to pursue our goals and dreams, and not let our insecurities hold us back.
Learning to love ourselves can be a journey, but it's one that is worth taking. We need to start by accepting ourselves for who we are, flaws and all. We should focus on our strengths and the things that make us unique. You deserve this shoot, yes you!
In conclusion, dealing with insecurities can be tough, but it's important to remember that we are not alone. It's okay to feel vulnerable and struggle mentally, but we need to focus on self-love and acceptance to overcome our insecurities. We are all worthy of love and happiness, and we need to remind ourselves of this every day!! Book the shoot, you are already here, make it happen. Start your self love journey here...